Absense

women definitely should be pregnant and in the kitchen. Barefoot as well.

I personally will be spending some time loitering in front of the Italian Embassy. *Excuse me, do you have the time?* Because my damn watch broke.

Of course no one wants to work for it. But if I don't work for it there is just some thirty something health food market regular on the verge of tears in a Border's parking lot saying he would like to see me again. And that he didn't realize I was so young. but we can maybe really work out. If I don't work for it there is a special ed teacher asking the Superintendent for my phone number. So much for confidentiality.

So I need to work for it. New York is better for this. There are the Embassies. there is the subway. There is higher education. there is other stuff.